Mr X and I have been so very blessed in having had 3 children with no problems with conception, pregnancy, or deliveries. But I have friends and relatives who have miscarried, or whose children have died. I know that God gave them special grace, otherwise there would be no way to bear it. I love to read Sheila Gregoire at To Love, Honor, and Vacuum, and today on her Facebook page she linked to a letter she wrote to her son 3 years ago on the 13th anniversary of his death, and a video she made to help grieving parents. It is heartbreaking but uplifting, and speaks from her heart. If you pray, please pray for Sheila today, as well as all the parents who have lost a child.